Owing to the passing of Proposition 8, many have approached me regarding the highly-controversial topic of same-sex marriage. I am currently finalizing a draft which will outline basic philosophical arguments as to why same-sex marriage is not in the nation's best interest.
All throughout my childhood I dreamed of becoming a professional NBA basketball player. Unfortunately, reality checked my unreachable ambitions, leading me in another direction. Everyone has an equal right of becoming, in this instance, a professional NBA athlete. The only requirement is that you meet necessary qualifications. Such qualifications are inherent in the definition of what constitutes a professional athlete. Similarly, one must meet the requirements for marriage. A marriage, as defined by law, is between a man and a woman. Homosexual activists argue their "rights" are being infringed. What rights? They, like everyone else can marry a member of the opposite sex. They, however, choose not to meet such qualifications and consequently are not categorized as a married couple by law. So what's the problem? Furthermore, if homosexual couples were only concerned with rights, they would be content with civil unions. Civil unions grant all rights married couples enjoy. So it isn't about rights, is it? Ofcourse not! It is about homosexuality being accepted in contemporary society.
Perhaps the first example was difficult to understand. Here is yet another: We have dogs and we have cats; two completely distinct animals. If all dogs are now classified as cats. Then what originally was a cat, is not longer a cat by that definition. More exactly, if homosexual couples are now married couples, the very definition of what originally was marriage, not longer exists.
Activists will use the example of the 1967 inter-racial marriage laws. Such laws prohibited, for example, a black man marrying a white woman. Clearly this is bigotry. You are proposing that one race is superior to another. This
is a civil rights issue. In the case of same-sex marriage, this is not a civil rights issue. As stated previously, all citizens enjoy an equal right as under the definition of marriage. All can be married under law.
So what is the definition of marriage? Same-sex marriage activists will answer that it is an institution which recognizes one's love for another. If we base marriage on this premise, then why can't three people love each other, and thus be defined as married. Or four? Or Five? Why not polygamy? For this reason, marriage by law is based on the
possibility for a couple to pro-create. Moreover, marriage as a bodily union contains an intrinsic good. Not only does the institution of marriage act as mechanism to "bring the sexes together", but it functions as an intrinsic good in that "one flesh" can flourish. Thus, even if a couple (man and woman) are instrumentalzing sex, rather than for the purpose of pro-creation, an intrinsic good (one flesh, joining of sexes) occurs. Additionally, other common intrinsic goods only come from marriage as an institution. For example, marriage by law is the only form to which children are legally bound to their biological parents. Also, marriage channels the act of sex into a common good (children) for society and not merely of instrumental purposes.
Interestingly enough, as Proposition 8 has passed, the same group (homosexuals) who champion the cause for tolerance have resorted to bigot acts and even hate crimes. Propaganda against the LDS church, burnings of Books of Mormon, and public, personal attacks against Proposition 8 supporters are but a few reactions towards the democratic grass-roots effort of Prop 8 supporters.
I have not identified the sociological effects same-sex marriage would impose. I have not referred to even theology to validate my arguments. There is nothing more frustrating than an individual who states; "Well same-sex marriage doesn't really affect me." My response; it will and it does.
I will conclude with this point. An evangelical church owns beautiful property in the state of New Jersey. Because of their religious beliefs, they do not permit same-sex marriages to occur of their private property. A few months ago the church politely rejected a same-sex couple's request for marriage. The result; a law suit which accused the church of exercising bigotry and as a result, lost tax exemption from the government. Imagine now, all private, charitable institutions losing their tax exemption. The Boys and Girls Club, how would it survive? What about the Boy Scouts or even the LDS church? Such institutions protect individuals from vice and harm. They are fundamental to human flourishing and virtuous lives. The case for same-sex marriage is not about rights. It is about infringing upon our rights to believe what we choose to believe, and what we deem as morally appropriate. Whether or not these activists intend to destroy America's institutions, I do not know. I do know that it is in America's best interest to protect the establishment of marriage as an intrinsic good for society.